Steve McVey in 'Grace Walk'
The life pattern of believers is shown in the way that the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit relate to each other. Each seeks to minister to the other. So it is to be with the church of Jesus Christ in this world. There is no such thing as Christianity turned inward. Empty religion seeks to preserve itself and focuses on gathering. New Testament Christianity purposes to pour itself out in ministry to others. The ultimate benefit in allowing Christ to express His life through us is not what happens in us personally. Personal fulfillment is a wonderful by-product of His life within, but His greater goal is to express His life to a needy world through loving ministry.
Legalistic religion promises freedom, but actually causes those who are drawn into its snare to become prisoners of rules. Grace causes the Christian to simply rest in Christ, allowing Him to reveal Himself to others in the course of living each day naturally. Religion makes performance its priority. Grace chooses people as its priority. It frees us to take our eyes of ourselves and allows us to invest ourselves in others. It is a freedom that activates ministry motivated by life, not laws. Law insists on ministry. Grace inspires it.
Since coming to understand Christ as life, I have related to people in a different way. As you proceed in the grace walk, you may also discover this change. Jesus loved people during his earthly ministry 2,000 years ago. He still loves them and will express that love through you as you rest in Him.
This expresses pretty clearly the place I used to live compared to where I've been the past few years. We as Americans look at everything in life according to what we get out of it. This is no different with Christianity...we are constantly asking "what's in it for me?" Our own personal fulfillment is secondary to the concept of Christ living His life through us...loving those around us with a love only He is capable of. How would Christ's ministry on this earth have looked different if He had the same obsession with self gratification that we have?
No one would have noticed He had arrived...
He would have been the same as everyone else around Him...struggling to find out what was in it for Him...
Maybe that's why we don't see things being done today like Christ did on earth...we're too busy trying to figure out what is in it for us...
A good friend of mine said to me recently, "something's wrong when the most dominant, powerful, and wealthy country in the world's top selling books are about praying a prayer to get more blessing and increase our territory."
God forgive us...